Ok seriously ladies...seriously...

ok..so.....this is totally not a blog intentioned to be one of those self-empowering, we women rule the world type vibe...just sharing a few thoughts..hey that's what a blog is right?..whatever. lol..

anywhoo...ladies....*sigh*......We've got to do better when it comes to the men in our lives..seriously..now..nope, I'm definitely not a love guru yada yada yada..but I've been in thing for quite some time, and I think it's fair to say I've earned some staying power:)..lol...

But I digress.

Just a few things...you can adhere to them, you can choose not to..your choice..but hey..from experience..you always end up better if you choose my options. j/k..lol..do whatever your little heart desires ms. grasshopper:)

-respect and love yourself. if you dont, HE won't.
-don't accept anything. you don't have to. and as long as you accept it, he will continue to do it.
-show a bit of confidence. seriously..you are a QUEEN and shall be treated as so:)
-YOU are the prize. Let Him pursue you...stop chasing.ugh...not a good look....*deep sigh*
- don't be so accessible all the time....let him miss you..wonder what YOU'RE doing...not always the other way around.
-don't EVER think you can change a man. He is what He is. plain and simple.
-follow your heart.
-but USE your brain...don't forget it at home.geesh.

ok, I think that's it...lol..you thought it was going to be super deep, eh?..well not really...just a few things that I think we could all be reminded of from time to time:)

*smooches*

•SLEEP•

At this very moment, I wish I could sleep for five days straight without any interruption. No Joke. I mean like head all the way under the covers type stuff..rain beating against the window..fan lightly blowing over me..ahhhhhh......if only.....


Oh well. Back to reality. Back to the grind....By the way, The GRIND never stops. Never.

Soooooooooo......

Happy New Year! Wooohoooo:)..ok, granted we've totally been in 2009 for 11 days, but hey its the thought that counts, right? Oh well..who cares..
Anywhoo....I have decided to make a more conscious effort in keeping this site updated..(And the crowd goes wild..lol..ok maybe not..) But things in life are..well....they are moving right along..SWIFTLY, in a wonderful way:). I mean to the point where I'm like ok....I gotta keep up or I'll get washed away by this tidewind! Sheesh! A few developments may actually interest my music lover friends so I'll be sure to keep you guys updated as things progress!!! But for now...I'll just say that Life....is pretty good. Still have SO many aspirations and things that I desire to do, but I can safely say, I'm On My Way...yeesssss....

So, guess that's about it..just wanted to start this yeah off with a mini-update for yoiu guys and gals..

Stay tuned;)....it's about to be VERY major!!!

*smooches*

My Deepest Apologies!

Wow....long time right? Sorry. It's just so much going on...I have trouble keeping up with any and everything. Talk about scatterbrained! Lol...
But....I must say that because I had gotten into the groove of blogging, expressing my thoughts...I kind of missed since I haven't been on as much...But have no fear folks..I'm back in effect. Stay tuned. Kind of tired tonight, so I'll wait just a second to post on the new happenings in my life, both personal and professional;)...but I shall return shortly.

Hope everyone is doing wonderful!!
Peace and Blessings to you during this holiday season :)

One Heart, One Love.

R&B Live Hollywood!

Hey hey hey:)....for those of you looking for a mid-week retreat to the tune of some banging R&B, mixed with soul, funk, and jazz, R&B Live Hollywood! is the place to be...

Each and every Wednesday night beginning at 8:00pm, RnB LIVE Hollywood! features live entertainment from some of the music industry's most notable names. Brian McKnight's band is the resident band, New Symphony, and comedian Chris Spencer..*the absolute greatest..Hi Chris:)* is the Master of Ceremonies. The spot for this extraordinary show is the famous Cinespace located in the heart of Hollywood at 6356 Hollywood Blvd. on the corner of Ivar Ave..

Just to name a few that brought sexiness to the RnB LIVE Hollywood! stage are: Keyshia Cole, Mario, Ne-Yo, Avant, Joe, Tank, Jamie Foxx, Anthony Hamilton, Chantee Moore, Akon, Aaron Hall, Al B Sure, Jon B, Doug E Fresh, MC Lyte, Spinderella, Cedric the Entertainer, Tommy Davidson, Marsha Ambrosius of 'Floetry', Brian McKnight and countless more...

Come out folks..a guaranteed evening of great music, great people, great mingling..and great fun:)...(sounds like a commercial, eh?)..anyway.....just thought I'd let you in on one of my fav spots here in La La Land....Look forward to seeing you.....hit me for Guest List information. RSVP early...it fills up quickly and you want a great seat!

Happy Trails to you:)

oh yeah....I'm still way hyped from Tuesday night..YES We Can. woohoo:)..

also, I saw a lady with orange hair. It was horrific. poor thing. actually, I wonder if that's what people said about me when my locs were orange. oh well. who cares.

peace.

•My Brain Spins on Wednesdays•

Alright...so......this one is slightly different from the others whereas this post is the first in a series I have decided to call 'My Brain Spins on Wednesdays' (real creative, eh?..*and the crowd goes wild..wooooohooooo!!!..ok fine, don't go wild. Weirdos.) Every Wednesday (at least that's my intention right now) I will post a blog composed of nothing but my pure, uninhibited, brutally honest thoughts....some will be funny, some serious, some straight-up honest, MOST will be random...but ALL of them will be Real. Sooooo.....let me just give the disclaimer once more that these thoughts are solely mine. Don't get all worked up if you're not feeling it. It's a blog people. Spare me.

Ok sooo guess there's no other way to start than just to dig right in, eh?...ok....here we go:)

- I have had trouble on focusing on pretty much ANYTHING today........I'm totally in such a state of elation, its not even funny. I mean, you'd think that I was the one elected last evening. Seriously.

- I am so firm and content in knowing that a Change is surely here.

- Ever get tired of eating?.....Get tired of figuring out what you're going to eat?.....UUGGHHH, I swear I am totally there right now. Day after day, I go through the same process over and over again. I go to Trader Joe's and stand there in the aisles looking at a variety of natural foods....most of which I do like, spend 200 dollars, and I still feel unsatisfied. I go to a regular store and stand there in the aisles looking at a variety of not so natural foods lol, spend even more money, and still feel unsatisfied. I pretty much despise 95 percent of fast food chains..no, 98 percent...soooo...what's a girl to do?....I swear, if I eat one more granola bar and deli sandwich, I'm going to turn into one.

- I hate when people lie to me. I do. I mean...it is ALL the way unnecessary!...Truth will get you way further. Promise.

- Sometimes, people are so extra. Women, in particular. It used to really baffle me as to why. But now, it's just amusing. I mean, on some comedy type vibe. Sad thing is, I don't think they even realize they are that way...maybe they do, and just think it's cute. Either way...ma'am, please have a seat. Take an entire bench if needed.

- I think I have a few addictions. Some of them are totally lighthearted, but others.....are not so good addictions to have:/......hurts to admit it, but it's true.

- I watched a Tupac vid today...one like chronicling his life and death, etc.....even got a bit misty-eyed. ( I know....I know)....

- So......kind of feel like I'm on the verge of some life-changing decisions, both in the personal and professional aspect. Scarrryyyyyyy stuff. Oh well..such is life.

- I wonder if I made the right decision. I wonder that a lot actually. Too late now though, eh?....or is it ever really too late? Maybe not.

- I have been ROCKIN' Kelly Price lately..her first few albums.. I mean, like the chick just came out...funny stuff.

- Alright, I'm done. I think. Yep I am.

Peace.




"Think like a queen. A queen is not afraid to fail. Failure is another steppingstone to greatness." --Oprah Winfrey

Congratulations, Mr. President:)

Wow......witnessing the election of our nation's First African-American President, Barack Obama....pretty surreal. It's been a long journey to get to this point, but we are finally here...CHANGE is here......cliche? Yep. True? YES. Sooooo......tonight, as we stand on the verge of a new day, in lieu of boring you all with jargon and political jibberish (yep, I'm a junkie, and could go on for days..literally)....I'll simply say...CONGRATULATIONS Mr. President and First Family. I, along with America, look forward to a NEW Day and a BETTER America:)

God is SO Amazing.

Peace.