Ok seriously ladies...seriously...

ok..so.....this is totally not a blog intentioned to be one of those self-empowering, we women rule the world type vibe...just sharing a few thoughts..hey that's what a blog is right?..whatever. lol..

anywhoo...ladies....*sigh*......We've got to do better when it comes to the men in our lives..seriously..now..nope, I'm definitely not a love guru yada yada yada..but I've been in thing for quite some time, and I think it's fair to say I've earned some staying power:)..lol...

But I digress.

Just a few things...you can adhere to them, you can choose not to..your choice..but hey..from experience..you always end up better if you choose my options. j/k..lol..do whatever your little heart desires ms. grasshopper:)

-respect and love yourself. if you dont, HE won't.
-don't accept anything. you don't have to. and as long as you accept it, he will continue to do it.
-show a bit of confidence. seriously..you are a QUEEN and shall be treated as so:)
-YOU are the prize. Let Him pursue you...stop chasing.ugh...not a good look....*deep sigh*
- don't be so accessible all the time....let him miss you..wonder what YOU'RE doing...not always the other way around.
-don't EVER think you can change a man. He is what He is. plain and simple.
-follow your heart.
-but USE your brain...don't forget it at home.geesh.

ok, I think that's it...lol..you thought it was going to be super deep, eh?..well not really...just a few things that I think we could all be reminded of from time to time:)

*smooches*

•SLEEP•

At this very moment, I wish I could sleep for five days straight without any interruption. No Joke. I mean like head all the way under the covers type stuff..rain beating against the window..fan lightly blowing over me..ahhhhhh......if only.....


Oh well. Back to reality. Back to the grind....By the way, The GRIND never stops. Never.

Soooooooooo......

Happy New Year! Wooohoooo:)..ok, granted we've totally been in 2009 for 11 days, but hey its the thought that counts, right? Oh well..who cares..
Anywhoo....I have decided to make a more conscious effort in keeping this site updated..(And the crowd goes wild..lol..ok maybe not..) But things in life are..well....they are moving right along..SWIFTLY, in a wonderful way:). I mean to the point where I'm like ok....I gotta keep up or I'll get washed away by this tidewind! Sheesh! A few developments may actually interest my music lover friends so I'll be sure to keep you guys updated as things progress!!! But for now...I'll just say that Life....is pretty good. Still have SO many aspirations and things that I desire to do, but I can safely say, I'm On My Way...yeesssss....

So, guess that's about it..just wanted to start this yeah off with a mini-update for yoiu guys and gals..

Stay tuned;)....it's about to be VERY major!!!

*smooches*